When you feel like a Loser, just try One More Time

There have been times, when you are feeling defeated in life. No matter whatever you do, you just can't turn it back. You cannot turn the wheel of fortune that keeps on giving you roadblocks that make you standstill on the road to success. You try really hard, but still you fail.

In that very moment, you realize what a big failure you are. Your father, who did everything in his capacity to do everything in his power to give you the life in his capacity. Your mother, who sacrificed everything so that you can be brought up with everything by mortgaging her jewellery (true story). They gave you everything that you don't deserve. Still, you couldn't give them a happy life without any worries.

All you did is to copy others and compete in stupid competitions just to get recognition. You just ran a rat race that you knew that you were not going to end to the finish line because there is no line. You just did mindless hard work, that too not honestly and sincerely, thereby ending up mediocre. 

But why?

You were the best in school. You liked to know everything beforehand. Furthermore, you were incredibly curiously that you would get every possible information that you were not needed to have for any exam but just to serve your curiosity. You were a knowledge maven.

Where did it all go wrong? Why did you get lost? 

This is because you were weak. You gave in to your temptations that wouldn't do any good, it never has, and it never will be. You wasted so much of time and energy that don't matter any more. That never mattered in the first place.

Now after decades you realize the mistakes you did. You never improved on yourself, never worked for my beloved parents. All you were needed is to work on yourself for them.

But there is time to turn everything around. It is never late. You can change. It is never late to change. All you need to do is to think about your parents and work towards your goal, mark my words, even if you fail, you will learn so much throughout.

You will fall in love with process. You will fail, and you will feel like a loser. Likewise, you should feel like a loser, else there is no meaning. But then, that is the beauty of life, right. It makes you stronger when you are down. It gives you the opportunity to rise up. It gives you hope that you will succeed if you work hard towards your goal with sheer dedication.

All you need is to try one more time.